Depending on situation, money buys:
I am under no delusion that most of what I enjoy today in my life: stability, security, choices (to work or not to work, to do certain types of work, to work only certain hours), and freedom (being able to immigrate and stay in this country) were supported by a level of financial means.
Read some personal accounts on Quora of why people have to go to “cash advance” gouge-level interest services or why they have to line up to renew food stamps, and I appreciate all the more how “money-supported stability” makes the difference between maintaining life in the middle class versus becoming a member of the working poor.
Thus, I can’t in my good conscience talk down money like I’m holier than needing a currency. All the other stuff like bartering and in-kind services are simply other currencies that “money” represents as the de-facto symbol.